Thursday, January 4, 2018

Cloudy Wednesday

Wednesday was a cloudy, overcast day.  I was hoping it would rain, but it didn't. 

I had trouble falling asleep on Tuesday night.  I stayed up all night, had breakfast at 6:00 a.m. and went to bed at 6:15 a.m., Wednesday!  I woke up once at 9:00 a.m., but went back to sleep and slept till 11:00 a.m.  I was very thankful that I am on vacation and can do that.  I spent what was left of the morning, blogging.  For lunch, I had a curry puff.  

The afternoon was spent relaxing, being online, and enjoying the fact that I was off work.  When I relate this to my Balanced Life goals, I would consider this as Leisure/Me-time.

In the evening, I brought the trash cans in and went for my walk.  I walked for 15 minutes only, but and afterwards, daughter and I did some stretching for 5 minutes and then, I did a couple of zumba dances with her for another 10 minutes or so (she continued to dance for a full hour).  That was my exercise for the day.  I also prayed and meditated while I walked (there is, actually, a thing called walking meditation).  When I review my Balanced Life goals, I would consider this as Health & Well Being, Spirituality (because I meditated), Me-time because I walked by myself, and spending time with Daughter, as well. 

The cousin at whose house we had Christmas dinner had sent the leftover roast beef home with me.  Today, I took some of the roast beef and made a stew with it:

Beef Stew
I added potatoes, carrots, onions, celery, tomatoes, and green peas, to my stew.  Daughter and I had it for dinner and I had a side of salad, with it.  Grapes for dessert (followed by a chocolate!).

I drank my 8 glasses of water without any problems and will probably drink another glass (with my medications) before I go to bed.  However, I only had 3 servings of fruits and vegetables, which is below the 5-7 servings that are recommended.  Need to work on that!   I would consider this, too, as part of my Health and Well Being.

I called my cousin to wish her for her birthday and later, I called my aunt to chat with her.   (Family segment in the Balanced Life goals)

Today, I was grateful for:
- Being on vacation
- Being able to sleep in
- Spending time with my daughter and dancing together
- Supportive friends
- A relaxed day

Wednesday's decluttering (Environment):
- 1 blouse
- 1 pair of pants
- 1 calendar

I tried to tie in Wednesday's activities to the areas in my Monthly Balanced Life goals to show how daily activities tie in to my goals.  I don't necessarily touch on all areas, every day, but, over the course of the month, most areas are attended to, often in small ways.

To focus on the positives, I also revised some of my post by crossing out some words in order to replace any negativity that tends to creep in, almost unnoticed - words like "only" in the context of "walked 15 minutes only" and "only 3 servings" bring an underlying sense of being insufficient and thus, negative.    This is what my daughter has been trying to tell me - there is no need to feel apologetic for walking for 15 minutes or having 3 servings of fruits and vegetables.  It is what I was able to achieve - own it and move on. 

How was your Wednesday?  What did you do today?

8 comments:

  1. I like that you crossed out the word only. I use it too and it is a self defeating word.

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    1. Thank you, Anne. Words like, "only", "merely" seem to have an excuse built into them, don't they?

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  2. It sounds like a relaxing day, Bless, despite the very late night! I see what you mean by trying to be more positive now that you crossed off the negative words. It can be insidious, can't it?! Good job drinking your 8 glasses of water! It's hard for me so I'm sipping on coffee and tea to warm myself up and make myself drink enough liquids. I hope you're enjoying your Thursday as well :)

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    1. It was a very relaxing day, Nathalie. I like days when I don't feel like I have to do certain things. That's what vacations are all about, to me - days in which to relax and not do much of anything, if I choose not to. :)

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  3. Your daughter is very wise. I don't know why so many of us are still left feeling unsatisfied with ourselves or as if we should have done more, even when we've achieved something positive, so striking out that 'only' word is definitely the right thing to do. I like how you've related what you've done to areas of your balanced life goals. Hope your sleep pattern returns to some sort of normality. xx

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    1. Thank you, Suzanne. Yes, she is very wise, isn't she? :) It is interesting, and sad, how we tend to minimize what we accomplish in a day, isn't it? We might work a full day at the office, come home and take care of the household and family stuff and, yet, at the end of the day, we bemoan the fact that we were only able to accomplish that much and not more!

      Hope all is well with you and your family. Have Amy and Thomas started classes again?

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  4. Oh my gosh. What a great exercise. I am afraid to look over my posts for fear I will find many examples of self defeating language.

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    1. Don't look back, Susan, but, maybe something to keep in mind when doing future posts?

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