Wednesday, February 5, 2025

Thriving in January

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My word of the year is "Thrive" and that's what I have been trying to do, although January was a difficult month for me, especially with the gale force winds and the wildfires.  We weren't in immediate danger, but, at least one friend lost their home and, at my daughter's insistence, we prepared to evacuate at a moment's notice if needed.  Fortunately, we didn't have to evacuate and the fires have all been contained now.  However, it was an anxious time. In addition, there were other happenings, which were beyond my control, but, which still impacted me and which caused some consternation.  Through it all, I was determined to be positive and to thrive.  Did you know that the past tense of thrive can be either throve or thrived?  

Since I didn't do a review of my monthly balanced life goals at the end of December or do any monthly goals for January, I thought I'd review January with thriving as my goal. 

Spiritual:
Throughout January, especially during the first week or two, I continued to feel buoyed by the almsgiving which was held at the end of December.  I kept my spiritual side thriving with daily prayers, meditation, and doing my best to live my life according to the teachings of my religion.  

Daughter:
I have loved having my daughter home all of January.  It is a joy and our relationship is thriving.  

Health & Well Being:
While there is much room for improvement in this area of my life, my follow-up  lab test results have been good.  As a result, I feel quite positive about this area of my life.  

Family, Friends, & Community:
I have kept in touch with family by phone, video chats, texts, etc., speaking with my sister, cousins, and aunts.  I've spoken on the phone and exchanged texts and emails with some friends and other friends have visited, bringing me gifts of food.  I did receive the sad news that my former neighbor and friend T had passed away on New Year's Day.  I also visited my neighbor S and her daughters in January and participated in the blogging community.  I'm pleased with the amount of interaction with my family, friends, and community, in January.  I think this area of my life is thriving.

Finances:
For the most part, I have done well managing my finances, in January.  I did go over the grocery budget, by a little over $15.  Nevertheless, this is another area in which I feel I've thrived.

Time Management:
As usual, another area with room for improvement!  I am afraid that I did not thrive in this area of my life!  I've procrastinated on many fronts and I need to really get a grip on myself and manage my time better.

Leisure/Hobbies/Crafting:
I have enjoyed lots of leisure time this month.  I finished crocheting a blanket and I've read a few e-books I borrowed from the library.  I did want to do more crafting in January, but, somehow, I didn't.  So, there's room for improvement in this area of my life.

House:
I am deeply grateful that my house was undamaged during the winds and the fires.  I am very thankful that I still have my house.  I was ready to ;eave everything behind and evacuate it if needed and the fact that I didn't need to means a lot to me.  It might not be the biggest house or the most beautifully decorated and maintained residence, but, it is my home.  I am determined to make my home a place where my daughter and I can thrive.  

Garden:
The garden in January is thriving in its own way.  Most of the fruit trees are dormant, right now, but,  I'm picking lemons and oranges almost daily and enjoying fresh lemonade and fresh oranges.  We've had one day of rain which was very welcome and there's another shower of rain in the forecast, so, the garden is thriving.

All in all, the month of January was challenging and I admit to struggling a bit.  However, I tried to thrive in small ways.

How was your January?

20 comments:

  1. Despite all the difficulties I think you did survive and thrive through January pretty well. I didn't know about THROVE , I looked it up, and it used to a more common form of the past tense, along with THRIVEN. Thank you, you know how I love to learn new words

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    1. Thank you, Angela. Yes, I was familiar with throve and thrived didn't look right when I first wrote it! LOL. I guess thrive follows the same order as "drive, drove, driven". :)

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    2. Thanks for looking up the forms of thrive, Angela. Now I know that I have thriven. :)

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    3. I like your word of the year and how you are using it as a focus in your life. I haven't picked a word of the year before, but now I'm going to think about it.

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    4. Thank you, June. Yes, I am going to use thrive as my focus this year. I have been doing a world of the year for a few years now and it has been an interesting exercise. :)

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  2. That was a pretty good month!

    Thank you for writing this. You are inspiring me and I'm grateful.

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  3. It's been a hard month for many, and you have thrived through it all. Health concerns and the fires surely added to your stress. Having your daughter there I'm sure is a pleasure. How is her foot doing now? Home is where our hearts are, be it small and simple. Mine has been disrupted this past week, with plasterer here repairing two badly damaged walls from a roof/chimney leak. Now I'm tidying up. (I've retyped this, as I hit a wrong "key" on my phone and what I'd had vanished. Sorry if this turns out to be somewhat duplicate! )

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    1. Yes, Celie, January has been a hard month for many. My daughter's foot is healing; she is able to take a few steps without her crutches, now, and she is slowly trying to walk without her walking boot, as well. She has a follow up appointment with the podiatrist, next week.
      Sounds like you are busy getting your house repaired. Sorry you had to retype the comment, but, thank you for doing so.

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  4. I love the word THRIVE! January has certainly been a tough one for you, but I'm glad you have had your daughter home to weather the storms of life together. I'm very glad to hear the fires are all contained now. I know that was very concerning!

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    1. Thank you, Mandy. Yes, I struggled a bit during January, but, there were good moments, too, and having my daughter home has been wonderful. I am so grateful that the fires have been contained.

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  5. Sorry you are being bogged down by external forces (or whatever it is) and I hope things settle down in due course. The photo is beautiful!

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    1. Thank you, Lady Ella. As I mentioned to someone else on her blog, paraphrasing William Wordsworth, "The world is too much with me", these days. But, I'm working on adjusting my responses as I can only change myself and I am focusing on thriving.

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    2. Oh, and thank you for the lovely comment about the photo. :)

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  6. I'm sorry to hear about your friend. I like your word of the year.

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  7. This was indeed a good time of year for your daughter to be with you, to share the anxieties and frustrations of current events, even after the fires were under control. As for time management - I'm still battling that one!

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    1. Yes, Bushlady; it was good that my daughter and I were together during this time. We were there for each other. :)

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  8. I'm so sorry your friend lost their home in the fires. What a terrible thing. As a child we lost our home in a fire. I was in 6th grade. I remember how it affected us and I'm sure dealing with the aftermath helped mold me into the adult I became.
    Especially considering all that was going on in January, you had a very good month.
    Throve - who knew? Not me. lol

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    1. Oh, I'm so sorry you lost your home in a fire when you were a child, Debra. Yes, things like that tend to have an impact on us, don't they?
      Thank you; yes, January was rough, but, all was not lost and I throve where I could! :D

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