Saturday, November 22, 2025

A Whole Lot of Baking Going On

 

Olive Oil-Dark Chocolate Chip Cookies

Daughter has started baking for Sunday's tea party.  Due to the dietary restrictions of one friend, she is trying out new recipes using olive oil instead of butter and lactose-free milk instead of regular milk.  

She baked a dozen olive oil-dark chocolate chip cookies (no nuts as her friend can't eat nuts) and we sampled one.  I thought it tasted delicious and I couldn't tell any difference in taste from a cookie made with butter.  Then, again, it's been a long time since I've had a homemade chocolate chip cookie!  We gave one to M to taste test, too, and he thought they were very good.

Olive Oil Scones

Daughter also baked a batch of scones using olive oil instead of butter and they turned out well, too.  These will be served with some jam.

Chai Muffins

Daughter also baked a batch of chai muffins. We sampled one and it, too, was delicious.  The chai tea gives it a lovely taste of spices.  

The final item to be baked is the Earl Grey tea cake, but, that's on the list of activities for Saturday.  

There was some rain in the morning, but, it cleared up by the time I had to go for a fasting blood test.  Later in the afternoon, daughter and I went to the dollar store and I bought a few items I wanted, including a large grid wall calendar for 2026, some solid air fresheners for the bathrooms, a couple of frozen burritos and some ice cream bars.  We shared one of the burritos for brunch, followed by an ice cream bar.  Then, we put away some laundry, daughter did her baking, we both tidied the family room a bit, and chatted with M when he came to tend to the garden.  I made macaroni and cheese with canned chicken and frozen green peas added to it for dinner.  

On Friday, I am grateful for:
- The rain for the garden
- Medical insurance
- Access to medical services, including screening tests
- Safe drives to the clinic and the stores
- M's help with the garden

Friday's joyful activity was knitting (and sampling some of daughter's baked goods!)

Plans for Saturday include cleaning the house.

How was your Friday?  What are your plans for the weekend?  

Thursday, November 20, 2025

After the Rain: A Garden Tour

 

Rain Soaked Rose

You might not appreciate yet another garden tour, but, I took some pictures of my own garden after all our recent rains.  It is not a botanical garden, by any means, but, you are welcome to tour my garden with me.

In the front garden, we have, in addition to the rain-soaked red rose above:

Jade Plants
This one plant is about 3 ft. high



Aeoniums
This is one plant that is spreading out



Lantana



Euryops

And various other plants that I didn't take pictures of this time around.  

In the back garden, we have:

A New Strawberry Plant: "White Carolina Pineberry"
White fruit with red seeds

Plant Tag for White Carolina Pineberry

Then, we have the citrus plants:

Satsuma Tangerines Starting to Ripen



Lemons Starting to Ripen, Too

Lemon Blossom




Buds on the Orange Tree

The summer vegetables are mostly over.  But, this one butternut squash plant still has baby butternuts:

Late Season Butternut Squash

Then, there's what I'm calling my little glimpse of autumn colors:

Nectarine Tree Shutting Down



Plum Tree Turning Color, Too

In addition to the new strawberry plant, there are some more new plants for the garden, too, that daughter wanted to grow in the raised bed planters she bought and assembled:

Japanese Herbs: Japanese Mugwort, Mizuna, and Some Others


Japanese Herbs in the Planter
with Radish Seeds at the Other End


Daughter's Raised Garden: Arugula & Kale, Japanese Herbs,
Newly Transplanted Kale Seedlings in the 3rd Planter

Meanwhile, the plants in the "bulbery" (mostly bulbs that M shared) are thriving:

Calla Lilies and Irises

Another Look at the Bulbery

And on the other side, we have the Stonery:

The Stonery


Which seems to have its own little stumpery started!  LOL.  

The Mini Stumpery! 

M put the big stone and two branches down to discourage the garden cats from digging up and sleeping on the plants and I added a third branch more recently!

I am very happy to see that there are at least four nasturtium seedlings growing in the stonery, growing from the seeds that the previous plant, which died in the summer, had dropped:

One of the Nasturtium Seedlings

Currently, there aren't many flowers in the back garden.  But, if you look closely, you can find one or two:

Chrysanthemums Hiding Among the Four O'Clocks

Paperwhites 

It's raining, again, as I type this.  I know the plants are enjoying the extra watering.

The garden cats are not too happy, but, they are managing to keep dry:

Fluffy and Scruffy Sharing a Cardboard Box
Moo Sheltering Under the Patio Table
Patches, their Mother, Disappeared

Thank you for visiting my garden.  Hope you enjoyed the tour.

Wednesday, November 19, 2025

November Grocery Shopping - Part 2

We ordered groceries on Sunday and, again, on Wednesday.  Sunday's order included groceries for the house, some facial tissues which fall under household products in my budget and not part of the grocery budget, and some specific items that my daughter wanted for the birthday afternoon tea party she is hosting for one of her friends.  Wednesday's order was exclusively items for the party and for the dish she is taking to a "Friendsgiving" potluck dinner she has been invited to by one of her friends.

At first, I wanted to pay for all the groceries.  However, daughter insisted on paying for her part of Sunday's grocery order and all of Wednesday's order, saying that if she had ordered the food already prepared from a bakery or cafe, she would have paid for it, herself.  Plus, she didn't want me to go over my grocery budget because she was entertaining her friends.  

I didn't take any pictures of the groceries, but, here's the receipt.

Sunday's Grocery Receipt:

Order Summary

Original Item Total$61.79
Item Coupons/Sales-$16.50
Order Coupons-$1.00
Fulfillment Fee+$0.00
Other Fees+$0.20
Sales Tax+$0.71
Order Total$45.20

Item Details

11 Items

*Barilla Rustic Basil Pesto with Italian Basil Pasta Sauce and Spread, 6.5 oz$3.79
1 x $3.79 $5.49 each
Item Coupon/Sale: -$1.70
*Bertolli Sustainably Sourced Extra Virgin Olive Oil, 16.9 fl oz$7.99
1 x $7.99 $13.99 each
Item Coupon/Sale: -$6.00
*Bigelow® Earl Grey Black Tea Bags, 20 ct$3.99
1 x $3.99 $4.79 each
Item Coupon/Sale: -$0.80
Bush's Original Baked Beans 28 oz, 28 oz$2.99
1 x $2.99 $3.29 each
Item Coupon/Sale: -$0.30
Kroger® Easy Care Everyday Facial Tissues, 4 ct$7.49
1 x $7.49 each
Kroger® Onion Bagels, 6 ct / 18 oz$2.79
1 x $2.79 each
Kroger® Original Cream Cheese, 2 ct / 8 oz each$3.29
1 x $3.29 $4.69 each
Item Coupon/Sale: -$1.40
Kroger® White Sandwich Bread, 20 oz$1.99
1 x $1.99 each
*Nestle Toll House Dark Chocolate Chips, 10 oz$4.99
1 x $4.99 $6.29 each
Item Coupon/Sale: -$1.30
Ocean Spray® Fresh Premium Cranberries, 12 oz$1.99
1 x $1.99 $3.99 each
Item Coupon/Sale: -$2.00
*Oscar Mayer Deli Fresh Slow Roasted Roast Beef Thin Sliced Lunchmeat, 7 oz$3.99
1 x $3.99 $6.99 each
Item Coupon/Sale: -$2.00
Item Coupon/Sale: -$1.00

Order Coupons

-$1.00

Store Coupon-$1.00

Other Fees

$0.20

Bag Fee$0.20
2 x $0.10 each

* Items ordered by daughter for her tea party

The total came to:  $45.20

Of which, daughter's share of the bill came to $24.75

My share of the bill came to $20.45

Of which, $7.49 + $0.71 tax = $8.20  was for the facial tissues, which are not part of my grocery budget.

So, my grocery bill came to $20.45 - $8.20 = $12.25

Since daughter paid for Wednesday's grocery order (all the items were for the tea party and a "Friendsgiving" potluck dinner she has been invited to), I am not going to post the receipt here.  But, her order included lactose-free milk, half & half for herself, fruit, an English cucumber, dill, and two cans of mackerel.


My November grocery budget = $250 + $15.09 carried over from October = $265.09

Spent to date = $49.02 (on 11/5) + $12.25 (on 11/16) = $61.27

Balance left in the grocery budget = $265.09 - $61.27 = $203.82


I am positive that I will come under budget, this month, even with Thanksgiving coming up next week.  I am keeping an eye on the Thanksgiving sales and the store I order from is having whole turkeys for $0.79/lb. with an additional purchase of $25 in a single transaction.  

As always, I am grateful for the availability of groceries, being able to afford groceries, and the convenience of ordering and picking up.  I am also grateful that daughter insisted on paying for the items she wanted to get for her friends.  

Have you started shopping for Thanksgiving yet?

Tuesday, November 18, 2025

November Meal Plans: Week 2 Review and Week 3 Options

Birthday Lunch: Pad Thai, Beef Fried Rice, Seafood Drunken Noodles


These were my meal plan options for November Week 2 (11/10 to 11/16:

Brunches:  Egg salad sandwiches; cereal and milk; the last bagel; leftover pizza; leftovers from dinners

Dinners:  Smoked sausage, spicy oven baked potato wedges, broccoli; Chicken curry, dhal, rice, cucumber salad; Thai food (birthday meal); Leftovers/Planned-overs 

Snacks/Desserts:  Fruit; crackers; chips; granola bars;  banana/zucchini bread; blueberry-cranberry muffins; maybe cheesecake?

And here's how that worked out:

Monday:
Brunch:  Early birthday celebration lunch: Thai food
Dinner:  Leftover Thai food
Snacks/Dessert:  Feijoa (pineapple guava) from the garden; crackers; chips

Tuesday:
Brunch:  Egg salad sandwiches
Dinner:  Leftover Thai food
Snacks/Dessert: Chicken nuggets and ice cream cones

Wednesday:
Brunch:  Egg salad sandwiches
Dinner:  Leftover Thai food
Snacks/Dessert:  Grapes, granola bars, crackers, cereal and milk

Thursday:
Brunch:  Leftover Thai food/leftover pizza
Dinner:  "Breakfast for Dinner": Pancakes and sausages with syrup
Snacks/Dessert:  Grapes, granola bars or crackers, chips; cereal and milk


Friday:
Brunch:  Various leftovers (daughter had leftover pancakes and sausages; I had the leftover bagel with cream cheese); persimmons
Dinner:  Smoked sausage tray bake with seasoned baked potato wedges; cucumber salad
Snacks/Dessert:  Blueberry-dried cranberry muffins


Saturday:
Brunch:  Milkrice!  Yes!  Mid-month!  LOL. It was a rainy day and I wanted something warm and creamy.  With fish curry, lunu miris/seeni sambol, and jaggery
Dinner:  Various leftovers - Thai food, smoked sausage, cucumber salad, etc.
Snacks/Dessert:  Leftover muffins


Sunday:
Brunch: Leftover milk rice and fish curry, the last of the pad Thai 
Dinner:  Leftover smoked sausage and potato wedges, last of the cucumber salad
Snacks/Dessert:  Feijoa (pineapple guava); Olive oil scones which daughter baked (she was trying out a dairy-free scone recipe), spread with butter (daughter as she doesn't like cream cheese) or cream cheese (me) and homemade peach jam.  The scones were delicious.  

The birthday Thai food lasted us practically the whole week!  This time, my favorite was the seafood drunken noodles.  

Moving on to Week 3 (November 17 - 23), here are my meal plan options:

Brunches:  Onion bagels with butter or cream cheese;  boiled mung beans with lunu miris; instant stringhoppers with chicken curry and seeni sambol; cold cuts sandwiches; leftovers

Dinners:   Instant tonkatsu ramen noodles and parathas with scrambled eggs and lunu miris (Monday) Chicken curry, dhal, broccoli and rice;  macaroni and cheese with canned chicken or tuna; scrambled eggs and toast or fried potatoes; beef pot pies; leftovers

Snacks/Desserts:  Fruit; crackers; chips; granola bars; leftover scones and maybe cookies and cakes, too*

* Sunday Afternoon Tea Party: Daughter is hosting an afternoon tea party for a couple of her friends to celebrate one friend's birthday.  She is planning to have 4 varieties of sandwiches (cucumber with chives, egg salad, roast beef cold cuts, and roasted peppers with pesto), dairy-free scones with homemade peach jam,  chai cupcakes/muffins, Earl Grey Tea cake, olive oil chocolate chip cookies; and fresh fruits, served with a variety of teas and lactose-free milk to accommodate the dietary restrictions of at least one friend.

Once again, the meal plan options might, or might not, change as the week progresses!

As always, I am grateful I am able to have access to a variety of food and plenty of it, and for daughter treating me to birthday meals.

Are you meal planning this week?

Monday, November 17, 2025

A Rainy Monday

 

Rain Soaked Roses

We had more rain all day, today, on Monday.  I was humming "Rainy Days and Mondays" by The Carpenters, all day.  So far in November, my area has received over three inches of rain since November 13; some other areas have received over 5 inches.  Which is a lot of rain for us.  One year, our annual rainfall for the year was 5 inches!  There's more rain in the forecast for this week.

It's been a bit cooler, too, and last night, we put the furnace on for the first time this season.  We warmed up the house and turned it off when we went to sleep.  I turned the furnace on, again, this evening, too.  

Daughter had work today and meetings; I kept myself busy doing a few little things, replying to blog comments, visiting a few blogs, and trying to get myself motivated to do some "real housework" (wasn't successful; need to try harder!).

Brunch was toasted onion bagels with butter or cream cheese.  I put out a package of chicken thighs to thaw to cook for dinner, but, they hadn't thawed enough, so, dinner was something quick and easy - instant tonkotsu ramen bowl, followed by parathas cooked with scrambled eggs and lunu miris.  Grapes for dessert.  I will keep the chicken thighs in the fridge to marinate overnight and cook them tomorrow.  I haven't made my meal plan for this week, but there will be chicken curry with rice or parathas!  

Friend R called in the evening and we chatted for a bit, which was nice.  Later, daughter took the trash cans to the curb for me, which was also very nice.  

On this rainy Monday, I am grateful for:

- All the rain we are receiving
- A working furnace
- Quilts and blankets on the beds
- Working appliances
- Having electricity to run the appliances

Today's joyful activity was knitting.

Plans for tomorrow include making a meal plan and cooking the chicken curry.

How was your Monday?  What are your plans for Tuesday?



The Rest of the Week

 

Pom Pom Chrysanthemums
at the Japanese Garden

Thank you, everyone, for your very kind comments about my visit to the botanical gardens.  Visiting a public garden had been on my Fall/Autumn Joyful Activities List and I am so happy that I was able to do so on my birthday, thanks to my gardener friend M who gifted me with the tickets.  He had been very keen for me to visit the Descanso Botanical Gardens for years, but, I wasn't ready to go until now.  It was a very big deal for me, especially since I generally tend to stay home.  

I needed to take it easy for the rest of the week because I was quite tired after that outing!  First, my left knee complained about the walking (the fact that I had dropped a large glass jar on my left foot a day or two prior to the trip and bruised my second toe didn't help).  Then, my hips protested for a couple of days.  

On Wednesday, M came to tend to the garden and I was able to show him some of the pictures I took at the Gardens and thanked him again for the tickets.  He brought several bags of potting soil I had requested him to buy for me and we planted some herbs and cool weather vegetables such as celery, kale, and carrots.  Later on Wednesday, I had a chat with my friend from university days. and, afterwards, I went to the pharmacy to pick up some medication refills.  We had leftover egg salad sandwiches for brunch and leftover Thai food for dinner.  We applied the vet prescribed flea treatment to Dancer and he seemed to tolerate it.  

On Thursday, I had a follow up appointment with the dermatologist.  It rained just a little bit on my way to the dermatologist's and it rained again on my way back.  I stopped for gas on my way home; gas has gone up, again ($4.69/gal. at the cheapest station in my neighborhood).  Later in the night, it started to rain in earnest - mostly light showers in my area, but, it rained throughout the night.  I was happy we were getting some rain because the garden really needed it.

On Friday, it rained all day and all night!  Once again, mostly light rain in my area, but, every now and then, it rained more heavily.  The garden received a good watering.  I didn't expect M to tend to the garden on Friday, but, he still showed up, moved some of the potted plants out from under the awning in the back and set them out to get watered by the rain, checked on the garden, and left early because I told him to go home.  I didn't want him working in the rain. 

Saturday was another rainy day!  Daughter vacuumed most of the house and I vacuumed my bedroom.  Then, I started on the laundry - my daughter's bed sheets and quilts,  the sofa dust sheets, and our clothes, etc.  There's extra laundry getting done because Dancer is still battling the fleas.  I've been flea combing him, daily, too, and sometimes, twice daily.  I think we are making some progress, but, it's an on-going battle.

The rain paused for the day on Sunday.  Daughter helped me order some groceries and I picked up the items in the early evening (I will do a separate post about the groceries).  Afterwards, I drove over to friend R's apartment to hand over a package she had ordered (she gets them delivered to my address because I'm home to receive them).  

Daughter tried a new recipe and baked some scones made with olive oil instead of butter and we both enjoyed the scones with butter and jam or cream cheese and jam.  

We are supposed to get more rain on Monday.  We need all the rain we can get, but, there have been floods and mudslides in certain areas.

As this week ends and another one begins, I am grateful for:
- Living to be 70
- M's gift of tickets to the botanical garden
- A lovely day at the botanical garden
- Access to medical appointments and prescriptions
- The rain we've received

My joyful activities have included a visit to the botanical gardens, planting cool weather plants in my own garden, knitting, and spending time with my daughter.

How was your week and weekend?  What are your plans for Monday?

Friday, November 14, 2025

A Visit to a Botanical Garden - Part 3

 

Roses

When we planned our trip to the botanical garden, daughter and I knew that I couldn't visit the entire 150 acre garden in one go.  So, we picked and chose a couple of main areas we wanted to visit.  The Japanese Garden was one of those areas, located to one's left when entering the botanical garden.  The other area was the Rose Garden, which was located to one's right when entering the botanical garden.

Pink, Single Petals

It isn't the peak season for roses, but, I knew that there would be at least some roses blooming because the roses in my own garden bloom for a second time in the autumn.  I was not disappointed!


More Roses

The Rose Garden grew from its original one acre to 5 acres and consists of 1,600 varieties of roses.  Apparently, it was renovated in 1994 and now includes many hybrid roses developed by horticulturists from around the world and is now called the International Rosarium. 

Whole Beds of Roses

According to the Gardens' website, the roses are interplanted with companion plants to attract  pollinators and predatory insects which enable them to grow the roses organically, without pesticides or herbicides. 

Roses and Companion Plants

There were a few water features, too, including this pond:

Water Features

After walking through several parts of the rose garden, we came to a fountain with benches around it and I sat for awhile to rest:

View from a Bench

My daughter and I were fascinated by the huge aeonium plant that was growing by the fountain.  As far as we could see, it was just one plant!  It merited a second look:

Aeonium

There was a tunnel of arches strung with stars, which is a part of the Enchanted Forest of Lights feature, which starts mid-November and continues into December.  It is an evening/night experience, featuring a one mile long walk with interactive lights, leading through various parts of the botanical garden (separate tickets are required for it and we saw several staff members getting the place ready for the lights displays).  The arches are planted with climbing roses, I believe and would look lovely in the late spring/early summer when the roses are at their peak blooming season. 

Part of the Enchanted Forest of Lights Garden Walk

There is a pavilion in the Rose Garden which I believe is available for renting to host private parties, etc., and we walked through it as we left the Rose Garden.

Daughter took a picture of what currently looks like a dry stream bed, but, which I imagine helps to carry rain water and is part of the Garden's water collection and circulation system.

"Dry" Stream Bed

We took another picture in front of an archway built out of branches:

Branch Archway

I am wondering if M and I could put together a smaller version of such an arch in my garden?  

By this time, we were both feeling a bit tired and I was wishing I had brought my bottle of water with me, instead of leaving it in the car, although the visitors' guide specified no food or drink in the garden.  

There is a central courtyard one has to pass through near the entrance to the botanical garden, complete with tables and chairs, and surrounded by a coffee stand, a gift store, an adjoining plant nursery, a market where one could buy food and drinks, and a more formal restaurant.  Of course, even though we were tired, I had to check out the plants in the nursery (they had some lovely Christmas cacti in bloom, but I thought they were very overpriced) and the items in the gift shop (again, very overpriced, in my opinion, although people were buying things).

Next, we wandered over to the market and looked at the snacks and drinks they had.  $9 for an ice cream cone?  No thank you!

I had anticipated food to cost a lot at the botanical garden and had made egg salad sandwiches before we left in the morning and packed a picnic lunch with a couple of bottles of water and a bottle of lemon-lime soda which I had kept in the car since you weren't allowed to bring food or drinks inside the garden.  However, there was a picnic area with tables and chairs just to the side of the car park, before one entered the Visitors' Center and the courtyard area.  My original plan had been to have our egg salad sandwiches in the picnic area, but, there were quite a few people sitting there and I didn't want to take off my mask to eat when there were so many people about.  Yes, both my daughter and I wore N95 masks the whole time we were in the garden, except for a couple of occasions when we took the masks off to take pictures of ourselves, making sure that there were no people around while doing so.

So, after sitting at a picnic table for a few minutes to rest, we walked to our car.  I had parked in a side parking lot that was a bit away from the main parking area, so it was fine to sit in the car with the windows down and our masks off to enjoy our sandwiches, drink our water, and share the bottle of soda.  

Then, we drove home and encountered only the very beginnings of rush hour traffic.  We stopped on the way home to get two ice cream cones and an order of chicken nuggets to share; once again, daughter paid as it was my birthday.  

Altogether, I really enjoyed my birthday and the visit to the botanical gardens.  I would like to go back to visit the garden at least one more time, perhaps in the spring, to see the rest of the gardens, including the California Garden with its native plants, the Hill Top garden and Boddy House.

Once again, I am very grateful for my gardener friend M for making this visit to the botanical garden possible.  

Thursday, November 13, 2025

A Visit to the Botanical Gardens - Part 2

 

The Ancient Forest

The Ancient Forest featured specimens of some prehistoric trees including cycads, tree ferns, and Coast Redwood trees.

The Ancient Forest



Coast Redwood (Sequoia)


It was quite shady in the Ancient Forest:


Tree Canopy at the Edge of the Ancient Forest


There were several paths going through the Ancient Forest and benches along the way:


Benches Along the Way



Cycad (Sago Palm)



Coast Redwood with Twin Trunks

And while I took pictures of the trees in the Ancient Forest, my daughter took some pictures of me taking pictures of the trees (I had no idea she was doing that, until she shared her pictures with me!)


Picture That!


We didn't explore the Ancient Forest in depth, but, there were lots of interesting plants to see, including these cycads:

Cycads



And several water ways:

One of the Waterways


Then, walked through part of the Camellia Forest:


Part of the Camellia Forest


There were several areas marked as Camellia Forest in the map of the Gardens that we had, and most of the trees were not in bloom.  But, I imagine the place looks magical when all the camellia trees are flowering.

These camellia bushes, however, were flowering:

A Portion of the Camellia Forest

We then took a path that led us back to the area in front of the Japanese Garden and we walked past the amphitheater and the Main Lawn to a location identified as "Center Circle" in the map.  There was a table and bench formed from two slices of  tree trunk and we sat down to rest for a bit.

Tree Trunk Table Top

Directly in front of us was the center circle, which featured water-wise gardening.  It was planted with a variety of water-wise, drought tolerant plants, and repurposed fountains.  I was most interested in this planter in the shape of a fish, with a plant growing out of its mouth:

Fish Pond Fountain Turned Planter

There are actually two fish planters, but, the other one can't be seen from this angle.  They were, apparently, fountain heads in a pond, at one time.  They were moved to the Center Circle and planted with water-wise plants!  Very creative!

We were near the area with model trains and a small scale ride on train, that is mostly an amusement ride for children, I believe.  The general admission tickets didn't include a train ride, and neither my daughter nor I was interested in it.  We had another destination in mind and after our brief rest, we headed out in that direction.  But, that's for another post!  

Once more, I am most grateful for M for this wonderful birthday gift!