Time to do a review of how well balanced September was for me and what I intend to do to strive for balance in October.
As I've explained before, my monthly balanced life goals are similar to the spokes of a wheel, with the length of each spoke representing my satisfaction in that area of my life, from 1 to 10, with 1 being most dissatisfied and 10 being most satisfied. Ideally, all the spokes are of equal length and the wheel will roll along smoothly. If the spokes are of unequal lengths, then, the resulting wheel will be lop-sided and wobbly. My ratings for each segment are shown within the parentheses, with the beginning of the month ratings in black and the end of the month ratings in blue.
Balanced Life Goals:
- Continue to attend Temple prayer/blessing services online
- Participate in the September prayer gathering if possible/if there is one
- Continue to cultivate non-attachment by being generous and giving to the extent I am able
I was able to attend online blessing services at the Temple as the monks continue to post it on a daily basis. There was no monthly rosary prayer gathering in September and, I think, it has come to an end for the time being. Whether they start it, again, post-Covid remains to be seen, but, I have removed it from my monthly goals for October. I continued with my own daily prayers, meditation, being grateful, and I have tried to be positive and joyful. I am keeping the rating at 10.
October Spiritual (10)
- Continue with daily prayers, meditation, being grateful, positive, and joyful
- Continue to attend Temple prayer/blessing services online
- Continue to cultivate non-attachment by being generous and giving to the extent I am able
September House (9)(9): The goal is a home that is pleasant, comfortable, and welcoming.
- Clean - Clean as needed
- Organize - Continue to find a place for everything and keep everything in its place
- Well maintained - Keep "erasing the evidence"; implement daily and weekly cleaning schedules
- Decluttered - Continue to declutter (goal = 30 items)
I have been cleaning, organizing, and keeping the house tidy and maintained, for the most part. I still struggle with things piling up, from time to time, but, I am happy with what I have been able to accomplish. Two of my big cleaning projects this month were organizing the bathroom shelf unit and the cabinet under the kitchen sink. I decluttered my 30 items, including an extracted tooth and the crown that used to be on the tooth before it broke! Other items decluttered include brochures and financial reports, a few CDs, extra jars, and food containers. I am keeping the rating at 9.
October House (9):
- Clean - Clean as needed
- Organize - Continue to find a place for everything and keep everything in its place
- Well maintained - Keep "erasing the evidence"; implement daily and weekly cleaning schedules
- Decluttered - Continue to declutter (goal = 31 items)
- Continue with landscaping the side yard
The garden is being maintained. This is not the best month for the garden due to the heat, but, so far, this year, I haven't lost any plants. I put down more flattened cardboard boxes in the side yard in an attempt to form a weed barrier and have been able to cover the entire length of it with at least one layer of flattened boxes. I am not sure if one layer would be enough, though. I will try to get more boxes to form a second layer. I am still planning to get several bags of pebbles to put down as a path with some stepping stones in between and plant some drought tolerant plants there. I am keeping the rating at 9.
October Garden (9):
- Maintain(water frequently as needed, weed, fertilize)
- Continue with landscaping the side yard
- Be supportive of her and continue to be there for her
Daughter and I continue to keep in contact daily. I am grateful for her help with various tasks such as ordering groceries, air purifiers, and face masks online. I am also very grateful that we get to see each other during our nightly online chats. I am keeping the rating at 10.
October Daughter (10):
- Daily texts, phone calls, and video chatting, etc., to keep in close touch with her
- Be supportive of her and continue to be there for her
September Family & Friends (10)(10): The goal is to continue to have a close connection with family and friends.
On going. I have been interacting regularly with family and friends through phone calls, emails, texts, etc. I am keeping the rating at 10.
October Family and Friends (10):
- Regular phone calls and emails to check on family and friends
September Community (10)(10): The goals is to be involved in my community
- Continue to participate in the various community groups to the extent possible
October Community (10):
- Continue to participate in the various community groups to the extent possible.
I continued to spend mindfully in September. My big expense, this month, was my car insurance renewal. I stayed within budget for groceries in September. I am keeping the rating at 10.
October Finances (10):
September Health & Well Being (8)(8): The goal is good health
- Attend all of this month's medical appointments (3 scheduled - dentist, mammogram/bone density scan, podiatrist)
- Continue to strive to attain a healthier weight
I attended all my medical appointments, this month, and received my flu vaccination, as well. I didn't lose any weight, but, I didn't gain anything, either! I'm keeping the rating at 8!
October Health & Well Being (8):
- Attend all of this month's medical appointments (4 scheduled - dentist, ophthalmologist, blood test, oncologist)
September Time Management (8)(8): The goal is to spend my time in a mindful manner.
- Focus on making my schedule work for me
- Procrastinate less
- Spend time purposefully, mindfully
On going. I am making my schedule work for me, trying not to procrastinate, too much, and trying to spend my time purposefully and mindfully. I am keeping my satisfaction rating to 8.
October Time Management (8):
- Continue to focus on making my schedule work for me
- Procrastinate less
- Spend time purposefully, mindfully
September Leisure/Crafts/Hobbies/Me-Time (10)(10): The goal is to relax doing something I enjoy doing for the pleasure of it.
- Engage in daily joyful activities
- Pick one unfinished crafts project (quilt in progress) and finish it!
I have been engaging in daily joyful activities and have been practicing the piano. The quilt has remained untouched (I am still maintaining that it is too hot to work on a quilt; today's temperature was 104F, but, I didn't want to turn on the room air conditioner). I started knitting a scarf, instead! I am keeping the rating at 10.
October Leisure/Crafts/Hobbies/Me-Time (10):
- Do a crafts project (I have a specific project in mind; just need to get started on it!)