Reliquary |
Today, Wednesday, January 5, my daughter and I held our almsgiving.
The monks brought a new reliquary, that they had received on the first of the year from Sri Lanka with them. They said that mine is the first house they've taken this new reliquary with them! The presence of the reliquary transforms the house into a temple. Reliquaries are usually kept covered with a cloth to keep out dust, etc., but the monks uncovered it to show me and I asked if I could take a picture of it (they know about my blog!) I did not ask them about the relic that is contained within. There are probably just as many relics of the Buddha as there are pieces of the True Cross. A person's belief and faith can transform something ordinary into something extraordinary.
I woke up at 8:00 a.m., today and did all the tasks on my to do list. Everything was done and ready by the time the monks arrived.
As is our custom, small amounts of all the food that was prepared for the almsgiving were served in small containers, along with water and juice (apple juice, in this instance) to be offered at the altar.
Platter of Offerings to the Buddha |
After the monks had had their lunch (they wore their masks before and after their lunch; we had our masks on the whole time) and chanted blessings, one of the monks walked through the house, at my invitation, and blessed the house by sprinkling blessed water (he poured some blessed water into a clean bowl and used a freshly picked rose from the garden to dip into the water to sprinkle around the house, from the front door steps to the back door steps.
Just before they left, I asked them if there was anyone at the Temple who might need a meal and served up a plate of food for them to take back. There are usually three or four monks at this particular Temple although I only invited two and often, some people come to the Temple if they need a helping hand. Daughter and I also shared some food with neighbor S and her family and I took a share over to friend R. Almsgiving food is meant to be shared. I was too tired in the evening to take anything over to neighbor T, but, I'll take some of the desserts over to her, tomorrow.
Almsgiving Lunch |
In the evening, I set about "erasing the evidence" - cleaning up evidence of the almsgiving. All the chair covers and table linen were washed, dried, and put way, except for the few napkins and the one table cloth that have to be ironed (will do that, tomorrow, as I had put away the ironing board and iron). Then, most of the dishes were put in the dishwasher and washed; the rest were washed by hand. The dishwasher has been emptied, but, some items have not been put away in the cupboards, yet (requires climbing up on the stepstool to do so!)
Daughter's winter break ends today; she starts work, again, tomorrow (still working remotely from home, but, her office is planning to have them all return to the office, around the end of the month, rotating who will be in the office on any given day; apparently, they need to keep staffing levels to no more than 40% of occupancy capacity of the building due to Covid).
Today, I am grateful for:
- Being able to have the almsgiving
- Daughter's help with all the work, before, during, and after
- The monks blessing the house as well as my daughter and me
- Being able to share some of the food with friends and neighbors
- Working appliances!
Today's joyful activity was having the almsgiving. I feel it is a blessed start to the New Year.
Plans for tomorrow includes more erasing the evidence - putting things back where they go until the next time, ironing the items that need ironing, and doing some paperwork.
How was your Wednesday? What are your plans for Thursday?
That sounds like a beautiful and meaningful visit. Thank you for sharing it.
ReplyDeleteYes, it was a very meaningful ceremony for me; I've missed being able to hold almsgivings at home. :)
DeleteThe almsgiving and blessing of your home sounds wonderful and the food for sharing looks delicious. I take it your daughter will have to return to her own home at the end of the month, you will miss her company so much. I didn't manage to do my housework yesterday, I am so tired just lately, so today and tomorrow it is then.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Eileen; it was a lot of work for both my daughter and me, but, I feel better for having done it. :) Yes, my daughter will be returning to her apartment fairly soon; I will definitely miss her company. It's best to rest when you are tired. Hopefully, you'll feel more rested, tomorrow.
DeleteWhat an extra special blessing to have been the first home the reliquary visited. The ceremony sounds like it blessed & lifted your spirits. I am so glad you shared all the before, during & after events about the almsgiving ceremony.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Mary-Lou; that's what the monks said, too, about being the first home for the reliquary to be brought to. :) The ceremony did lift my spirits. :) It was a pleasure to share the details. :)
DeleteChanting and sprinkling water with a freshly picked rose sounds beautiful. I'm glad you were able to have the service before your daughter has to return to her apartment.
ReplyDeleteThank you, June. I, too, am glad I was able to have the service before my daughter returned to her apartment; it was a blessing for her, too. :)
DeleteThank you for sharing this with us, Bless. I am happy for you that you could finally hold the almsgiving at home. X
ReplyDeleteYou are welcome, Jules; it was a pleasure to share. :)
DeleteSo glad to read that the almsgiving went well and it's a lovely start to the year for you. Is the food for an almsgiving always vegetarian (it looks lovely, by the way) or is it just the monks who are restricted to vegetarian food?
ReplyDeleteIt's a shame that your daughter has to go back to her apartment. You're both going to miss each other aren't you?
Thank you, Eileen; I was happy to have the almsgiving, now, while I could! For who knows what might happen between now and the end of the year?
DeleteI have always served mainly vegetarian food at my almsgivings (can't say all vegetarian because I do serve eggs - after being told it was OK, by the abbot at one Temple, since commercially produced eggs are not fertilized). A lot of the monks are vegetarian, but, some will eat fish and some even eat chicken. From what I understand, the monks are not required to be vegetarian; it is more of a choice, depending on how one interprets the precept to refrain from harming another's life. :)
Oh, yes! We are going to miss each other very much! But, we'll probably chat each night and look forward to the next time she'll come home, whenever that might be! :)
I truly enjoy that you share snippets from your faith with us. I love the idea of almsgiving and especially blessing the house.
ReplyDeleteI only wish I were a neighbor because your meal looks delicious.
Thank you, Anne. I would have gladly shared the food with you, if you had been a neighbor! :)
DeleteLovely to read about the almsgiving and see the photograph of the exquisite reliquary. I loved to hear that your home was blessed throughout with the holy water. The food looks delicious, including the soup that you said yesterday that the monks really enjoyed.
ReplyDeleteDH was getting the car out and saw a white rabbit (snowshoe hare) by the garage. When he told me, at first I thought it was your "Bun Bun" that was taking a vacation in Canada!
Thank you, Bushlady; having the house blessed was important to me. The monks were impressed with my daughter's cooking. :)
DeleteOh, I hope the snowshoe hare doesn't encounter the fox! I haven't seen Bun Bun or any of the other rabbits in at least a couple of months! Wonder where they went?
Like everyone else, I too found this interesting. I'm familiar with certain elements of it. Your food looks wonderful! When I take presents to friends in Japan, if they include edible things, often the recipient will place some of it on the family altar. I'm glad that you were able to find a way to make it happen. Traditions are special, and something spiritual like this, all the more so. Good for you!
ReplyDeleteI have had my parents here this evening for a Twelfth Night dinner before I take the Christmas decorations down. I served the love cake and it was a great hit! We chatted about the other recipes you sent. The multi layered cake does exist in Goa. It's called ribbon cake (not rainbow cake, as I mistakenly said to you). The coconut cake is called bhaathk but I didn't make that - instead I made the coconut flan that I mentioned to you before. There are so many leftovers! I don't suppose your neighbours would like some..?
Thank you, Lady Ella. I'm a bit tired, today, although daughter did the bulk of the work; but, I'm glad that I was able to hold the almsgiving. It means a lot to me.
DeleteGlad you were able to have your parents over to dinner. I hope your sister has recovered and you and your parents are well. Glad the love cake was a hit. :) We, too, have something called ribbon cake (different from the bolo folhado) which uses a butter cake recipe and is baked in 3 separate layers, one of which is usually tinted green, one usually tinted pink, and the third one is left yellow; they are then sandwiched together with butter cream icing. This cake is often served as birthday cakes. Yum, leftovers! I'm sure my neighbors and I would like some of those treats! But, maybe it is easier to give to your neighbors and friends, instead? :D
I'm so glad you were able to hold the almsgiving this year and it all went well.
ReplyDeleteI got a sense of calm reading about the service and how your home was blessed as were you and your daughter.
What do you do afterwards with the small bowls of food and drink offered at the altar?
It is nice you were able to share some of your wonderful looking foods with your friends and neighbors.
Thank you, Debra. I'm glad I was able to hold the almsgiving this year, with my daughter doing most of the work! :)
DeleteThe food that was offered at the altar would normally be given to beggars or left out for animals to eat, in Sri Lanka. Over here, we sometimes send it to the temple for them to give to someone needy or we discard it.
I'm glad it all went so well. Thanks so much for sharing your traditions with us. The food looks delicious.
ReplyDeleteI hope you have a lovely weekend!
Thank you, Sharon. The food was vegetarian for the most part (I had some eggs with the salad); I wish I could have sent you a plate of it to try. :)
DeleteWhat a wonderful tradition and that your daughter was there to help you and that you were blessed together.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Sharon. Yes, it was truly a blessing. :)
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