tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7162428932122354536.post7038761163481843532..comments2024-03-29T05:18:43.415-07:00Comments on My Two Cents: Monday: April Grocery Shopping Week 4 - Part 2Blesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16369267622517848850noreply@blogger.comBlogger29125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7162428932122354536.post-28949632933753194952021-03-19T00:25:49.908-07:002021-03-19T00:25:49.908-07:00The mangoes I bought are ataulfo mangoes, also kno...The mangoes I bought are ataulfo mangoes, also known as honey mangoes in the stores, here. It is from Mexico. I don't think I've seen alphonso mangoes here, but, I might check for the cans in the Indian stores, once I am ready to go shopping in person!Blesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16369267622517848850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7162428932122354536.post-63485645521401836982021-03-18T14:40:40.529-07:002021-03-18T14:40:40.529-07:00Your mangoes are much cheaper than what we pay ove...Your mangoes are much cheaper than what we pay over here - but then I guess ours have further to travel! What kind of mangoes are those? Ours are typically mottled dark green and red. I know all the Indian family swears by alphonso mangoes - but I don't know if I have ever tried one even in India. I think they were out of season when I was there. I do love mango shake made with cans of alphonso mango pulp and milk, ice cream and ice. I should ask Mum to make it soon!Lady Ellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17050899813793376037noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7162428932122354536.post-31887893694383150162017-04-27T08:20:34.400-07:002017-04-27T08:20:34.400-07:00Thank you, Joy. I'm sorry you've had to c...Thank you, Joy. I'm sorry you've had to care for others with cancer; I'm sure they appreciated you being there for them, though. I know I appreciated my daughter doing her very best to care for me and all the others who stepped in when she wasn't able to come down to do so. Oh, I like that phrase, "kickin' butt and takin' names"! I don't think I've heard it before! LOL. Blesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16369267622517848850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7162428932122354536.post-4274011328238597082017-04-27T08:12:16.551-07:002017-04-27T08:12:16.551-07:00Thank you, Carolyn. :)Thank you, Carolyn. :)Blesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16369267622517848850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7162428932122354536.post-11063481548493775872017-04-27T04:55:50.360-07:002017-04-27T04:55:50.360-07:00Bless, you are WAY too hard on yourself. Unfortuna...Bless, you are WAY too hard on yourself. Unfortunately, I have cared for several people with various types ans stages of cancers. You are a ROCK STAR! Kickin' butt and takin' names. Love to you. <3Joyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02627396594669287458noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7162428932122354536.post-21317870655432469342017-04-27T00:32:28.670-07:002017-04-27T00:32:28.670-07:00Will continue to keep you in prayer, Bless. All t...Will continue to keep you in prayer, Bless. All the delays are so frustrating and yet you are dealing with them in a very courageous manner, even if you occasionally feel less so. You're certainly an inspiration!Carolyn @ Our Gilded Abodehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18201649173159755166noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7162428932122354536.post-34862436484725230532017-04-26T22:27:41.231-07:002017-04-26T22:27:41.231-07:00Thanks, Judy. Yes, it is taking awhile to recover...Thanks, Judy. Yes, it is taking awhile to recover. Longer than I thought. Thank you for keeping me in your prayers.Blesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16369267622517848850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7162428932122354536.post-50171497288241805012017-04-26T22:05:02.918-07:002017-04-26T22:05:02.918-07:00Thanks, Carolyn. You bring up a very valid concer...Thanks, Carolyn. You bring up a very valid concern. Mental fatigue and emotional health is a very real concern for cancer patients and probably for anyone undergoing a similar life-altering medical condition. It is, in fact, something I have discussed with my doctor as the medication I am on can have an impact on emotional health, according to the list of possible side effects. I honestly don't think I am depressed, though.<br /><br />But, I am concerned and anxious that I am taking so long to heal, especially since the doctors don't seem to know why. It is almost 8 months since I finished my radiation treatments. I am supposed to have recovered by now. I am supposed to have had a follow up mammogram in February and that is being delayed till at least June due to the on-going inflammation and swelling. In June, it will be 2 years since the lump was first detected. It has been an intense 2 years.Blesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16369267622517848850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7162428932122354536.post-86035285538212966542017-04-26T12:49:00.593-07:002017-04-26T12:49:00.593-07:00Bless, I am sorry your having a rough day.. It is ...Bless, I am sorry your having a rough day.. It is discouraging to not be able to do the things , we want to do.. You have been really sick and It is going to take awhile to get your strength to re-turn. Praying for you..Sew Blessed Maw [Judy]https://www.blogger.com/profile/15474519379303505290noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7162428932122354536.post-29876834988343187722017-04-26T08:44:36.773-07:002017-04-26T08:44:36.773-07:00So sorry to hear you were having a rough day - tha...So sorry to hear you were having a rough day - that can be so draining and deplete all our emotional reserves, too. I may be out of line by saying this and just ignore me if I am, but do you think there's a possibility your persistent fatigue could be due, at least in part, to a mild case of post-recovery depression? I only bring it up because a friend of mine experienced that and her doctors were quick to diagnose it as such. They explained to her that after going thru the hectic pace of treatments, and you reach a point where your mind and body have a chance to settle back into a quieter pace and the routineness of life, that's when emotional fatigue can set in. Just wanted to share as you've mentioned fatigue more frequently than any other challenge lately. So very glad you're feeling much better today! Sending (((hugs))) and positive thoughts your way!Carolyn @ Our Gilded Abodehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18201649173159755166noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7162428932122354536.post-81665173180027839622017-04-25T19:32:53.657-07:002017-04-25T19:32:53.657-07:00Thank you, Pam. Yes, I need to be patient and let...Thank you, Pam. Yes, I need to be patient and let things happen in due course. I shall make a note of the turmeric capsules and bring it up when I next meet with the doctor (in two weeks' time). In the meantime, I shall make more yellow curries which use turmeric. It can't hurt!Blesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16369267622517848850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7162428932122354536.post-31364689466988991052017-04-25T19:23:37.912-07:002017-04-25T19:23:37.912-07:00Thank you, Suzanne. I know I was whining, yesterd...Thank you, Suzanne. I know I was whining, yesterday. But I just felt so frustrated. Today is a better day, though. As you say, if there was cause for concern, the nurse would have said something. In any case, I will be seeing the radiation oncologist again, in a couple of weeks, so they are keeping an eye on things. In the meantime, I am going to scale back on my expectations, a bit.Blesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16369267622517848850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7162428932122354536.post-79693520856799069272017-04-25T19:06:28.400-07:002017-04-25T19:06:28.400-07:00Yes, thank you, Anne. Today, I made arrangements ...Yes, thank you, Anne. Today, I made arrangements to take two days of vacation on Friday and Monday - not work from home, but time off. Along with the weekend, that will give me a nice, mini break. I will NOT make a big to do list but try to rest and take it easy.Blesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16369267622517848850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7162428932122354536.post-50037671560981805352017-04-25T15:28:31.173-07:002017-04-25T15:28:31.173-07:00I am sorry you are having some concern and anxiety...I am sorry you are having some concern and anxiety. I can liken with that myself. I do know that if we can be patient, our bodies do strive to heal, waiting is the hard thing.<br />I am taking Turmeric in capsule form which is supposed to be good for inflammation. You might ask your doctor if that would be good for you. I do think it is helping me.<br />Best wishes.<br />Pam in TX.Pam in Texashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15066122753582331516noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7162428932122354536.post-91838413761374706672017-04-25T15:09:33.981-07:002017-04-25T15:09:33.981-07:00I think you're doing plenty just keeping on to...I think you're doing plenty just keeping on top of your house and going to work. I certainly understand how frustrating it is not being able to do everything you're used to doing. I would maybe re-think some things for the time being. Your number one priority is yourself, the rest will come. <br /><br />Hope the inflammation starts to improve. I think worrying about it is normal but I'm sure the nurse would have referred you if she Was concerned. <br /><br />Take it easy and don't expect too much of yourself. There's always a lot on your list of things to do so even though it might not feel like it you're achieving A lot XxEveryday life at Number 38https://www.blogger.com/profile/12945846951398052455noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7162428932122354536.post-21232480461577771502017-04-25T12:59:09.984-07:002017-04-25T12:59:09.984-07:00What can I do but concur with everyone else, Cont...What can I do but concur with everyone else, Continue to listen to your body, rest and let recuperation take it's own course.Anne in the kitchenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01533249631969001657noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7162428932122354536.post-18088299895542197192017-04-25T12:20:27.665-07:002017-04-25T12:20:27.665-07:00Yes I had one of those mangoes. I liked it better...Yes I had one of those mangoes. I liked it better than the other mangoes I used to buy! Me too about bananas. I like to have one daily (if I have them) yet there is a fine line between being perfect (and nice and yellow) and the moment when they start to ripen too much for my taste. AndreaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7162428932122354536.post-15460916750166846872017-04-25T09:35:37.651-07:002017-04-25T09:35:37.651-07:00Thank you, Bushlady. As I said in my response to ...Thank you, Bushlady. As I said in my response to an earlier comment, I need to focus on the fact that I am blessed to be alive and scale back a bit on my expectations of myself! I don't want to be seen as making my illness and recovery an excuse, though, if you see what I mean. Physically, I look fine and if I plead tiredness as a reason for not doing something, I feel people are skeptical, as it has been 18 months since the surgery, 8 months since the end of radiation treatments, etc. Surely I should be over it by now? Even the doctors are baffled, and that's not very reassuring to me. So, I keep pushing myself, but I guess I just need to step back and let nature take its time. I guess I am still on that mountain slope, aren't I?Blesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16369267622517848850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7162428932122354536.post-61412931746385263622017-04-25T09:24:42.513-07:002017-04-25T09:24:42.513-07:00Thank you, Sandy. I need to scale back, a little ...Thank you, Sandy. I need to scale back, a little bit, on my expectations, and rejoice in what I can do and not fret about what I can't do. Sometimes, I tend to be my own worst enemy! I need to be more patient with myself, and make allowances, just as I would for someone else. Sometimes, I think, I am kinder to others than I am to myself. <br /><br />I'm glad you were able to go for your walk, Sandy. I hope you have a lovely rest of the day. Take care.Blesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16369267622517848850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7162428932122354536.post-27443729517577857192017-04-25T09:14:53.119-07:002017-04-25T09:14:53.119-07:00Thank you, Laura. Actually, the port site is fine...Thank you, Laura. Actually, the port site is fine; it just needs regular flushing to make sure the opening is kept clear and no blot clots form. Even the lumpectomy surgery scar has healed. But there is an inflammation in the breast, itself, from the surgery and probably the radiation treatment. Internal healing is still going on and not as quickly as hoped. And the follow up mammogram is being put on hold until the swelling goes down as it would be too painful, otherwise. Those things hurt enough, as it is! <br /><br />I hope you are able to get some of the ataulfo mangoes as they are, indeed, very sweet.<br /><br />Hope all is going well with you and you have a good day. Blesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16369267622517848850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7162428932122354536.post-82940715961737371322017-04-25T09:11:39.082-07:002017-04-25T09:11:39.082-07:00I also know of someone who has experienced prolong...I also know of someone who has experienced prolonged problems like yours after radiation. It must be really hard to put up with when you want signs that all is now normal after the ordeal of your months of treatment. You certainly have a zest for life and it is great to read of your gardening activities, and your blog is a work of art in itself! Just keep on listening to your body and taking rest when you need it, and continue to find the joy in the little things. I'm sure your thankfulness is helping you to heal.<br /><br />BushladyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7162428932122354536.post-50999064686544067932017-04-25T08:56:59.194-07:002017-04-25T08:56:59.194-07:00Thank you, Nathalie. Yes, I definitely need to wo...Thank you, Nathalie. Yes, I definitely need to work on my expectations! I couldn't do everything I wanted to do even when I was well; so why should I expect I'll be able to do it all when I am still in recovery? Makes no sense at all to me. But, you see, I tend to be irrational at times! <br /><br />Ha, ha, I managed to stick to my grocery list this time! I told myself I only came to buy the bread, bananas, and mangoes. I picked up one other item - a potted plant, but put it back, as I feared Dancer might try to eat it and it's poisonous to cats. I might go back and get it, later, if they still have it, and keep it at my desk in the office. <br /><br />Hope you have a good day, Nathalie, and make that soup and the banana bread. Take care.Blesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16369267622517848850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7162428932122354536.post-1899659827284838112017-04-25T08:54:12.533-07:002017-04-25T08:54:12.533-07:00I am sorry that you feel impatient and frustrated....I am sorry that you feel impatient and frustrated. Until your oncologist indicates there is a reason for concern I'd carry on as you are. Actually you get an amazing amount done and often on very little sleep. <br /><br />I just came in from my walk which is still very hard for me. I find myself saying be thankful you can walk, although very slowly and to not dwell on how I used to tear around! Accepting the change in my physical condition but at the same time fighting on is what I strive for.<br /><br />Don't short change yourself on what you do get done. You tried the garden if it is too much at this time just let it go. Doesn't matter in the big scheme of things. Let your gardener friend help you and yes get those tomato cages. Make life as easy as you can at this stage.<br /><br />Hugs to you and best wishes for a excellent day.<br /><br />SandySandyExpathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06279377160838411203noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7162428932122354536.post-11998317318377683062017-04-25T08:41:26.762-07:002017-04-25T08:41:26.762-07:00Thank you, Andrea. I had one of the mangoes, last...Thank you, Andrea. I had one of the mangoes, last night, and it was very good. Have you tried the ones you bought? If so, did you like them? I'll have one of the bananas for breakfast, today. I like them just as they are getting ripe, not when they are very ripe.Blesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16369267622517848850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7162428932122354536.post-25008232279982487132017-04-25T08:37:56.124-07:002017-04-25T08:37:56.124-07:00Thank you, Live and Learn. I need to be more pati...Thank you, Live and Learn. I need to be more patient and remember that I am blessed to be alive. Need to focus on that. Need to back pedal a little bit and take it easy. It's OK if I can't be Superwoman. Hope you are having a good day, too.Blesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16369267622517848850noreply@blogger.com